Have you ever looked at another woman and thought “I want her figure?” or “she doesn’t eat to stay that size.” Have you ever compared yourself to another woman or asked your partner if your butt is the same size or bigger than another woman’s???? Don’t worry we have all done it!! And we will all do it and will keep doing it as it is part of female human nature. But I would love to know why we do it to ourselves…. Why do we torture our minds with such thoughts??
Is it because we want what we can’t have or we think that everyone else is having a fab life and looking great and we are not…but are they really??? Sometimes I look at Facebook or twitter and think “how amazing bla bla’s life looks.” Or “She looks happy ALL the time.” BUT then I give myself a BIG shake and say it’s not real. And the reason I know it is not real is because NO ONE puts a bad pic on social sites…. There is no way I am going to let anyone see me at my worst so why would they. In reality even though these social sites are amazing they are NOT REAL…… They only show the good bits and the bits we want people to see.
So how do we stop this or is this comparison mode always going to be with us?? Am I forever going to be comparing my ass to the lady next to me….
I SAY NO!!!
It is a no win situation. I think we should all write down the positives we find in ourselves and if I hear you say I don’t have any …. You are talking rubbish. Are you funny? Have you got pretty eyes? Do you like your legs? Are you good at keeping in touch with people? Are you a good listener/ communicator? Keep this in your purse or in your bag and if you find yourself comparing your legs to another woman or your life to bla blas Facebook page….. Get the piece of paper out your bag and read it and REMIND YOURSELF WHY YOU ARE WONDERFUL!! All very cheesy I know but us ladies need to stick together and start realising we are special in our individual ways….
Appreciate, support and LOVE one another for what we are.
Have a lovely day and thank you for reading my blog xxx
